Romantic Homemade Pasta Sauce
Posted by Ari on May 5, 2009 in Life, My Recipes, Quick & Easy, Savory Recipes | 37 Comments
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Few things can turn a simple pasta dinner into something spectacular like homemade pasta sauce. Saute diced onion and minced garlic in olive oil, add tomatoes, red wine vinegar and herbs, then toss it with your favorite noodles and dig in. With freshly grated Parmesan cheese you can’t ask for a more satisfying weeknight meal.
My husband and I have a long history with the recipe in this post. More than seven years ago he decided to ask me to marry him over a romantic, homemade dinner. He pulled out all the stops, placing fresh tulips in a beautiful vase, lighting candles and even sprinkling rose petals on the table. When I got home that evening the scene he’d created took my breath away – and then we sat down for dinner.
Although my husband is now an exceptional cook, back then he was no more skilled than I was. Me, the girlfriend who set his kitchen on fire when trying to woo him with apple cobbler. However, by this point I had mastered the pasta sauce you see here. Delicious and requiring minimal cooking skills, this was my go-to recipe; the one I made when we wanted something special for dinner, or when we’d had a little tiff and I wanted a surefire way to smooth things over.
When the big night came around, my husband was so nervous he accidentally doubled the amount of basil in the recipe, then tried to fix the mistake by adding more sugar, and when that didn’t work he added yet more basil… you see where this is going? I wasn’t there so I can’t say for sure, but he tells me this went on for almost 10 minutes so I don’t think it will surprise you to learn that we decided to go out for dinner that night – no pasta sauce can stand that amount of abuse! But before we left he proposed and I agreed to marry him. Homemade pasta sauce or no, I was smart enough to hold on to a guy who’d go to such lengths to create a romantic evening.
Over a glass of wine later that night I asked what he was thinking when he started adding crazy amounts of sugar and basil to the recipe. He shrugged and explained: “Well, I remember reading that if you add too much of something to a recipe you can fix it by adding sugar.” Curious, I looked up this mysterious reference when we got home and turns out he had read such a thing, but the book had been talking about chili and using sugar to offset the heat from adding too much chili powder. Didn’t work so well with basil, but boy does this pasta sauce recipe have memories now!
These days I like to ladle this sauce over spinach fettuccine and serve it with rustic sweet potato muffins. It also makes a great base for homemade pizza topped with cheese and onions caramelized in white wine. For parties, I sometimes serve the sauce with slices of fresh mozzarella as an appetizer. Whatever form it takes, it’s a hit every time.
Just keep an eye on that basil.
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Homemade Pasta Sauce (My Recipe)
Ingredients: Serves 4
- 4 large ripe tomatoes or 1 24-oz can of petite diced tomatoes
- 3 tablespoons extra virgin olive oil
- 1 medium yellow onion, diced
- 3 large cloves of garlic, minced
- 4 tablespoons red wine vinegar (I enjoy the acidic taste of the vinegar, but you can reduce this to 2 tablespoons if you prefer a sweeter sauce)
- 3 tablespoons tomato paste
- 1 teaspoon sugar
- 1 teaspoon dried oregano
- 1 teaspoon dried basil
If using fresh tomatoes: cut a small X on the bottom of each tomato, then blanch them in boiling water for 1-2 minutes. Dunk them in cold water immediately, then peel the skin off, remove the seeds and roughly chop the tomatoes.
Heat the olive oil in a medium saucepan and cook the onion for about 5 minutes, stirring occasionally, until light golden. Add the garlic and cook for 1 minute, then add the tomatoes and vinegar. Bring to a boil, then reduce heat to medium low and simmer, uncovered for 20 minutes, stirring occasionally.
Add the tomato pasta, herbs and sugar. Simmer another 15 minutes, stirring frequently. This is a chunky sauce as is, but you can make it smooth by using an immersion blender once the sauce has finished cooking.
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That looks simple and delicious! I love that your hubby tried to add sugar to offset the basil. What a cute story
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What a great story! Nothing beats homemade pasta sauce. Yum!
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That’s a great story.
Looks delicious!
What a great story – thanks for sharing! Your pasta dish looks fabulous!
I love homemade pasta sauce!!! I usually make it with fresh tomatoes.
Next time I will try your recipe. It seems to be delicious!!!. Eugenia
Just got home from work and saw your fettucine and pasta sauce…now I am craving this dish.
Wonderful story.
This looks yummy. After seeing all the gunk in a pasta sauce I was eating, I’m all for making my own!
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What a great memory! And the pasta sauce looks amazing as well.
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what a lovely story, thank you for sharing that. as for the pasta sauce, yes, nothing beats home-made sauce. this looks so yummy!
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What a sweet story! My goodness you must have been so young when you got married since it was seven years ago that you got engaged!!!
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Homemade pasta sauce can’t be beat! Yours looks and sounds fantastic!
Cheers,
Rosa
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Hahaha… I can totally understand your man’s confusion.
Such a great story!
I am definitely going to try this recipe. Thanks so much for posting…
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love the story. that pasta sauce looks yummy!
what a great story! haven’t been proposed to yet, but my boyfriend has sold me on the idea of adding diced carrots and fresh chopped spinach for the same recipe. i admit I’ve never added actual vinegar–thanks for the idea!
I always make my own sauce. I just posted my recipe too:) It’s SO much better than the jarred crap:)
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What a sweet story! And what a sweet man to cook for you! I’m not going to lie, I often turn to the jarred stuff for a quick dinner. Lord knows I wish I had the freezer space to keep vats of the homemade version on hand. I bet you guys make this every year for your “proposal anniversary,” right?
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I’ve always wanted to make my own pasta sauce with fresh tomatoes. Thanks for the recipe and great story!
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What a sweet husband you have! Seriously, if my boyfriend ever surprised me with a bowl of this stuff, I’d probably drop to one knee and propose to him! Thanks for the story.
P.S. You have the most amazing photography…
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This looks yummy.. I usually make my own pasta sauce but never added red wine vinegar. I will definitely try this recipe.
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You made a great recipe. Thanks for sharing. Love the picture.
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This reminds me of my dad’s homemade spinach fettucine which I adore. It must have been delicious!
I need to visit here more often! You make even simple recipes seem extraordinary.
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This looks fantastic! I love this type of homemade tomato sauce as well…but I have to stick to canned tomatoes because we don’t get very sweet tomatoes here. I will try your recipe with the red wine vinegar…souds delicious!
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This dish looks delicious. You are making me hungry.
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those are some interesting kitchen adventures you two have had! fantastic sauce, and i’m craving spinach fettucine now!
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I read every one of your posts, but i rarely comment because i read them in google reader, so i just wanted to say thank you for fine writing, recipes and hi!
Thank you Maja! I read your comment about 30 seconds after I woke up (I’m an email addict, what can I say?) and it was such a nice way to start the day. Thank you for reading Baking and Books.
It’s my pleasure!
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What a great story. I love it when my husband makes dinner for me! I’ve been looking for a homemade pasta sauce – will try this one out!
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That is really sweet and reminds me of a meal my now husband made for me when we were dating that involved chicken that was half raw when he served it! Like you I decided the effort was what counted
I keep intending to make my own pasta sauce, because it isn’t hard. Unfortunately, buying pasta sauce is way too easy. It’s also a good use of a slow cooker. You can have the pasta sauce on low for a really long time!
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Simple and delicious!!!!
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Homemade pasta sauce is so easy to make – I love it! Did you see my homemade vodka sauce?
Yours looks delicious!
I love simple like this!
Paz
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Adorable story.
I’m just waiting for my basil plant to get a little more bushy and then make some tomato sauce.
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Thanks for lovely recipe love pasta will try to make next time with this sauce.
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I’ve never made pasta sauce, but it looks so simple and delicious, maybe I’ll have to try.
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